Are you Annoying ? - You may have found the sulking partner is normal, to show how much you love and need. But, if you are spoiled behavior looks interesting thought, or just showing your immaturity that made her feel disturbed?
Without you knowing it, there are some things that you think are normal, but in fact interfere at once ludicrous for the men.
1. Being Depends
When I was single, you are very independent. But after having a lover, suddenly you want it you have to pick up and drop off here and here. It's normal, actually, but still there is a limit.
In the normal range, men love when needed, but when it came to the step of dependency, they will feel uncomfortable and even dodge. Although he will always be there for you, still show your independence. They're a lover, not a bodyguard or driver.
2. Mouthed 'Sharp'
Criticize other women whether clothes, make-up or overall appearance is unusual for you. But for men, it can be regarded as a rejection of the advantages of others. Men never pay attention to details. For them if a beautiful woman, then she is beautiful despite mismatched clothes and makeup.
The way that he was not annoyed at you? Hold yourself to criticism. Keep your comment to be divided into female friends while chatting and hanging out together.
3. Crazy Shopping
You may be happy to spend, but do not ever invite lovers to share your coveted shopping hunt. Definition spending is not the same man as woman. Spend time looking, weigh and try something at the mall, but not necessarily buying is not liked.
If you would like to accompany you shopping lover, you should think again. If it is definitely buy a certain item, it does not matter. But if you are still "looking", it would be cool if you invite your female friends.
4. Too Old Storytelling
Talked at length about the experience is something you normally do with female friends. Questions like: "How are you today?" Could lead to a series of vent. But not for him. These questions need answers for them only "good", "average" or "Poor". Not that it does not matter, they just do not need every detail.
If they see you're having problems, they will ask more. And that's when you should start to vent it out to the couple and asked for support.
5. Pretend Jealous
Acting jealous if your lover is with his girlfriend for you it might be fun. Since he became a concern and shows that he is yours. But acting too often, it will bother him.
Be careful if you pretend jealous, let alone accuse him of all sorts. Did you mean well, so that the relationship remained cordial, but if this is too much, it could trigger a war between you and your partner.
6. Login personality Area
Occasionally you may have seen sms on his mobile, but that does not mean you should open up your inbox and peering all short messages whenever you want.
Although he was a lover or husband, everyone still entitled to have a private area that does not want to know anyone else. And if he was angry because your behavior does not mean he's hiding something. He just wants you to respect her privacy.
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