Secrets Lies Knowing Your Spouse - One powerful means of maintaining relationships is to establish smooth communication, honest communication. The problem is, why people are afraid of telling the truth?People lie because people feel uncomfortable if you tell the truth. If you lie, said Dr. Jackie Black in his book, Meeting Your Match: Cracking the Code to Successful Relationship, men will be forcefully as usual. If facing questions directly, man will circumvent or answered "do not know". To find out if your partner is lying or not, you do not need a polygraph machine. You just enough attention to her movements.
Touching the noseOne of the most visible signs when people are lying is often touching his nose. Itching? Probably yes. But perhaps not given the context of a serious discussion. Although arguably not touch your nose firmly and definitely that it is the language of a lie, noses touching gesture unconsciously it may be a direct indication that the people are not ready to say what it is. At this point you can learn from the experience and habits of people are saying is not true and honest. At that time, unconsciously and unintentionally, they will touch his nose.
DictionPeople who do not usually lie directly answer your question. You ask, he'll answer it. It's simple. But note the change in style of speech. If he's lying, style of speech will change. What was once a simple, complicated now changed. Complex. Sentence to be very long, rambling, often not content and not answer questions. It could be forced diksinya complicated and impressed "wow", intellectual and contained. Though often tangled logic. Not disconnected. Between one thing and another thing not related. There is a kind of leap that broke. Although these points could not dipersiskan as a sign that the person must be lying, carefulness still needed to hold the tail of a logic error (thinking and language).
Behavior different from the usualAnother sign that you can not hold of the person telling the truth is a different behavior. Other than normal. You have to remember that the behavior or action relating to his mind. If he does not want you to know what happened exactly, certainly support his movement. There is some movement or behavior that you can consider, among other things, rubbing the neck or eyes, cover your mouth when you speak, scratching his head or holding the ear, and move the neck but not according to the sentence itself. Rubbing the eyes, for example. In psychology, the movement could be a representation of his refusal, shape-shifting emotions. So even shut up. Especially after talking, the man quickly closed my mouth and a little shocked. It was a clear sign. Or also scratching head scratching. You just have a good behavior. If he's telling the truth and right, she does not need to be scratching his head. Scratching head has a close relationship with a self-protection mechanism. Some kind of action to divert attention and conversation of others. Likewise, the movement of the neck rub. The movement can be a shape-shifting emotions.
Pause and speech errorsThis happens due to the unpreparedness of lying. People who are not prepared will lie gelagapan, stuttering or stammering in anticipation of a statement or confirmation, even a wrong answer or talk. Too long pauses in the conversation can be an indicator. That means the person thinking how should say something. Although these elements can not be used as a benchmark for sure, these elements still need to be in dialogue or efforts to expose the truth. For that, you still have to know the basic behavior of the man, studying speech patterns, body language and facial expressions. Pay attention to any changes. Therefore, as much as possible to avoid communication via SMS, phone or email. Without face to face, you will be hard to observe the changes that occur. That means you will also be difficult to know whether he is lying or not.
ContrarySomeone who likes to say no to be honest probably hated the name details or details. People that prefer to speak in general terms. Why? Because the things that detail would make it hard to say his point. Told in detail together with the unpacking lies. And it is usually avoided. Even if he tries to play with things that are detailed, there are not disconnected. Therefore, if you want to know if he's lying or not, invite him to play with the little things and details. If he is getting hard and can not trace a clear, chances are he's lying to you. Especially if he gets angry when you are questioning these things. Or her to stay away. It was a clear indicator.
Rona's faceIf you talk to someone, watch her color. If it does not change her color as before, you can still believe in him. But when you flicked something and suddenly her color changed, though he mangatakan "no", he's hiding something. Or well she was shocked and then fear that you know the meaning. If it is so, you will easily lure him to tell the truth. Look at her eyes and watch her color. Remember, a great liar was definitely not able to control the spontaneous movement of the facial muscles on top. Upper facial muscles that react very quickly according to the emotion.
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